My mother-in-law called. I answered and had a nice talk with her. She told me about one of our cousins who lives close by. He just graduated from college and his wife is throwing him a party tonight at 7pm. My mother-in-law asked me if I wanted to go to the party. My heart started racing and my anxiety rapidly increased. I almost never say ‘no’ to people, but this time I did. I honestly said, ‘It would be too much for me’. I was worried that my mother-in-law would be upset or disappointed, but she wasn’t at all. Her exact response was ‘Good for you for knowing your boundaries.’
I finally set boundaries and did the right thing for myself! And even better, I didn’t disappoint or upset anyone while doing so. I always think I need to say ‘yes’ to everything, even if it would be too difficult for me to do. I’ve been working on setting boundaries for a while now. Today is the first time that I said ‘no’ right away and with ease. I’m so proud of myself right now. Practice makes perfect.
Good for you! And her for getting it!
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Thanks. It was good for us both!
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I can guess how good you are feeling!
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I feel great! It’s an awesome confidence booster.
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Whoo hoo!! Yay for you!
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Exactly! Yay me!
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That’s amazing 🙂 Congrats.
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Thanks!
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Hi,
That is great you were able to do what was good for you.
I met you at Danny Ray’s meet and greet. Maybe you can check out my blog if you need a blogging tip or two. That is what I write about. I brought you the link to my About Page so you can read more about my blog.
http://wp.me/P6x6vQ-89
That was nice of you to reblog Danny’s party. I have many blogging events each month also.
Janice
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I just subscribed to your blog, you have so much useful information! Thanks!
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So happy for you!
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Thanks
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Yay what a confidence boost and to be validated too
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Definitely a good feeling
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You go girl! Baby steps 🙂
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Awesome!
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I know saying NO is hard to do. So proud. I have the same problem as well.
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