I hate solicitation. It makes me uncomfortable and full of fear. My husband’s idea is to get a “No Solicitation” sign to put in the front yard, I think that’s a great idea. Normally, our dog scares people away (he’s an 88 pound Pitbull mix), but not this time. Our dog is a sweetheart, but his size and bark tends to frighten people. When I’m home alone, I freak out any time the doorbell rings or when the dog starts to bark. It’s extremely scary for me. Even when my husband is home, I still get nervous, just not as much. I used to keep a baseball bat by the door to make me feel more comfortable. Sometimes I carry a knife with me to help me feel secure.
Yesterday, some guy came by the house trying to sell Tupperware. I told the guy at the door that I didn’t have time, but he kept talking. I told him my husband would be home shortly (which was a lie), so the salesman said he’ll come back in a little bit when my husband gets home. I told him we don’t have time. He said he’ll try coming back next week. I told him I’m not interested, but he still wants to come by again. I have a hard time being direct with people in these types of situations, it feels like confrontation. I wish I could just tell solicitors that I don’t want whatever they are selling and not to come back.
dont feel bad hon these people are such bullshitters they never shut up they just keep talking and hope you’ll give in! a sign is a great idea. i recently put one on my front gate it says no junk mail to be dropped in my letter box. unfortunately i’m still getting it. a lot of these people who drop leaflets in come during the night when we are sleeping. xoxo
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We also put a sign on our mailbox last week, but it hasn’t made much of a difference, if any at all.
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Fortunately, were I live, back in the woods a good ways from the “main” road…I rarely have people come to the house to sell or tell me about their religious beliefs, but when they do…it freaks me out. I never open the door so they see in my house. My dog barks as soon as he hears the car door close. I open the door and step out on the porch closing the door behind me. But I have stood in my kitchen watching through the window until they leave as well. I don’t do well with unexpected people at my door!
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Unexpected visitors are scary to me too. I open the door, but not the metal screen door, just so they can see my 88 pound pit mix. I hope that he will scare them off. But I don’t open the metal screen door for anyone. I miss living in the country where solicitors are few and far between.
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